Sunday, January 15, 2017

Eye of the Tiger

During a vacation, I saw a row of cards on display in a person's home.

Most of them showed pictures of tigers. I took them down and read them. Each one praised a person who had just graduated from college for hard work and dedication. Each one urged this person to be the "eye of the tiger."

What does it mean, I wondered, to be the "eye of the tiger?"

The internet offered some answers. According to the "Gratitude Guy,"* the eye of the tiger is the black spot behind each of a tiger's ears. When a tiger is about to move in for the kill, he flattens his ears forward, exposing these two black spots. These "eye spots" can confuse other animals as the tiger is about to attack.

In popular culture, the term means:

someone who is focused, confident, and has the look of being intense, somewhat cold but very fierce with a never say die attitude. ("Gratitude Guy)

It's also the popular  song associated with Rocky movies. Rocky had to develop the "eye of the tiger," the hunger and motivation to win and become a champion.

So when the parents, grandparents and aunts and uncles urged this college grad to have the "eye of the tiger," they meant to be focused on goals. They also meant being fierce and never giving up ("never say die.")

Because it is associated with a predator, the phrase can't help but suggest "going in for the kill." After all, the second "eyes" don't show until the tiger is ready to attack (kill) its prey.

I wondered what kind of ethic this is to urge in a young person. On the other hand, it seems a very "normal" way to think in American culture. We want to "win."

But are we "tigers," solitary, predatory animals? Social science teaches that humans are, above all, communal creatures. We are built to live in groups, and we function best in groups. We are very alert to social cues and try to be liked by other people. Being alone is one of the biggest predictors of early death. We are not mighty tigers. Instead, we are a species that is weak while all alone. We are built to depend on each other.

I imagine that the relatives of the college graduate meant to encourage being hardworking and striving for success. But it is troubling that the phrase has such a "killer" aspect.

After all, tigers will soon be extinct in natural habitats, surviving only in zoos, where they are dependent on others to protect them.

Maybe being an aggressive predator is not the best path to success.

Maybe "kill or be killed" means you die.

 People will tell me the phrase on the graduation cards is meant only in the most positive, encouraging way. It is meant only to build confidence.

All the same, I can't shake the idea that phrases like "eye of the tiger" promote a self-centered, aggressive attitude that is not realistic or helpful to society or the people in it in the long run. I wonder how much this kind of "off-hand" thinking or unexamined habit of mind led to the election of Donald Trump.

What do you think?


1 comment:

  1. From after its inception as a gov't or state, the US of A has been violently aggressive towards other nations: that's the war of 1812, when the US invaded Canada. It is very much in the American grain but it is slightly shocking and discouraging to know that not just one but several groups of presumably middle class parents urge this on their young adults. Just as bad that it's easily explicated on the Internet. I am not sure how communal we are innately (deep within): science also shows that from an evolutionary standpoint, we stay within self-enclosed small groups, exclude and will kill others who are different. We do share DNA with the Orangutan. But we need one another; we can't survive alone, and I agree studies show people live longer and do better when they are intimately connected with a support system. Perhaps some short-hand from the 18th century in philosophical tracts can help us out: John Locke easily showed the many flaws in the Hobbesian view of life, and it on his foundations and foundations from his essays that modern peaceful states which enable most to thrive when set up with voted in controls. At Sweet Briar when Izzy graduated everyone paraded together and the girls put in a circle of holding hands, looking forward to the future with friendship and memory of bonds in their minds.